"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
The older I get the less I care. And, I also care more than ever.
I choose what to care less about with less measured perfectionism.
I decide what to care more about with more discernment.
This is the beauty of having the privilege to wake up for another day, to live this one precious life in a way that honors that gift.
Here's a note to self with a few do's and don'ts. Use these if you like, or create your own:
Do show up for what matters. People, places, point of views, possibilities.
Do put pleasure on the daily menu - be it a good meal, a tender kiss hello and goodbye, a gesture of kindness that makes someone's day.
Do allow time, space and silence to remind yourself of who you really are, what you truly value and believe in and what makes you come alive.
Don't be afraid to address the difficult subjects, to do the hard work
Don't forget to give yourself permission to enjoy life, even if it's only Tuesday.
Don't worry about looking ridiculous. Individuality is underrated. Having the courage be who you are, as you are, is a gift to those who have forgotten what freedom feels like.
Above all, do follow your heart. The path may not always be clear, but more often than not, don't forget you already know the way.
X Alisa
Photo credit: Salvador Dali, unknown